Archive | October 2012

Picture Day!!

If ever there was an Unglued day, this could have been it. Picture day, so very stressful with twin tween girls. As always for picture day I had chosen the perfect outfit. Well, at least as always when I remember that it is picture day. But I digress… Perfect outfits for my beautiful girls. Only to finish with breakfast and lunches to find CE dressed in shorts and her sushi t-shirt. Sushi… really? For picture day I asked. Hmmmm, I could have approached that better I am sure. Tears followed and after much discussion we finally agreed on a suitable top for picture day, then I was adjusting the way it hung in the front much to her dissatisfaction…more tears. “Father in Heaven give me strength!”
Moving on to hair, NO!!!!! How do mothers survive this? It was tears, more tears followed by well…tears. Finally I hugged my poor daughter and asked what was wrong, the tween answer of the decade, Nothing! My God Glue is wearing thin by this point. Fortunately her twin comes to me and says mommy it’s time for us to go, then proceeds to give me a soul reassuring hug and I Love You and off they went to school. Whew, I made it, no screaming, eye rolling, or broken relationships. And I have successfully navigated a disastrous situation without my “I am a Screamer label!” Whoo hoo!!!

Throwing off my Labels

Labels… we all have them. What I realized after reading chapter 3 of Unglued is that some of the most hurtful labels are the ones I placed on myself. Many of these labels are also ones I hear my tweens saying about themselves. WHAT!!!! They are 10 years old and calling themselves stupid, I DON’T THINK SO!!! Chapter 3 has just become a family chapter. Sticky notes around the house,

“Labels only stick if I let them!”,

“A soul who believes she can’t leave…doesn’t”,

“Oh God, chisel me. I don’t want to be locked in my hard places forever.”

I absolutely cannot allow this pain and suffering to infect another generation of women. Going to fight with all that I am to be the best example of a woman that throws off all my labels. The only labels my daughters will wear are…

I am the daughter of Christ.

I am beautiful from the inside out.

I am smart.

I am funny.

I can do anything.

Cherished Moments

I know with every day that passes we are coming closer to the moment that these angels will pull away and no longer want me around.
However, that being said…this morning wasn’t one of them and for that I thank God. Those sweet girls were so snugly this morning and CR wanted to stay home in her pj’s and snuggle with mommy and CE whole heartily agreed. Of course, teacher mommy said no and proceeded to get them ready for the day.
Today could have been an unglued day because we were running late and other things weren’t going as planned, but I held fast and strong, prayed with all my might and was NOT a freak out woman.
Not coming unglued allowed me to cherish this morning with these angel girls, and it was a moment of IMPERFECT PROGRESS.